Oh yeah, you are getting there-fast!! Now some more TOW and overcoming the fear and all will come into place. Lets forget about the numerical description of the stance, beacause its getting a bit confusing. Ill describe it like that:
-atemting to plane and/or sailing downwind-bent, back leg, straight front leg , body is back
-sailing across the wind-both legs straight /the back one is a bit bent still a lot of time, but much less so compared to sailing downwind/ , body in central position between the foot straps leaning windward
- sailing upwind-straight back leg , bend front leg, body leaning forward
You are absolutely right that on a short board the faster you get done with the front foot the better, it equals stepping on the accelerator-the frontof the board lifts up free. At this point you have shifted your weight over your back foot /to be able to lift the front one and put it in the strap/ , to prevent rounding up push heavily on the boom! You start to accelerate fast now and the weight on your back foot increases at the same time. To lighten it up shift your body forwards while turning slightly upwind /it may help to lean the rig back at the same time /. Your weight will shift from your back leg to your front one and it will bent leaving your back one free to lift and get in the back strap.
This is the long version. With experience youll learn to do it all in one move when the wind is stronger. Now go out and practice